You find people in life, who are only involved on the outside. Who give so much credit to the package of a person. Judge so quickly based on their outfit, their hairstyle, the way they walk or talk.

It is those people who, see that beauty is eternal and everlasting in the heart and soul of a person, that truely creates strong and lasting connections and relationships.  Those people who are able to see inside a person by looking into their eyes, the person who is able to see the magnificence in a person’s vision by listening to what they say..it is that person who has truely stepped away from our instincts external judgements.

We all do it, form an opinion and thought in the first 7 seconds of meeting a person. But what about after that? Is it possible to re shape that opinion? To refine it to something more true then the easily washed away shield of masks and falsities. When we live through this place of external placement we are living a life of blurred vision. You pass up all of the blessings and glorious souls by looking for a certain package.

 When you focus outwardly, you forget to address a person by who they are, not what they wear or what they look like. Take a second to have a conversation with someone you thought you’d never talk to. Embrace that moment as a time to be completely open to accepting anything this person says, to giving yourself to them through acceptance.

You may feel as if you love someone, but if you’ve never given that bond the chance to connect from the core out, you dont know just how much you can love them. I feel that all too often people take advantage of a person’s presence in their life and never acknowledge or take the time to find out who they are, what they love, what they dream of, then you’ve yet to discover the depths of their being.

The shallowness of friendships and relationships arent rare. Have you seen how much conflict there is today? How there is a 70% divorce rate and friends arguing left and right? Do you ever stop to wonder why? Why all of these ending marriages? Why all of these fights? Because when things are built on a shallow level, there is no foundation, no deep connection rooting them to the Foreverness of true Love and Acceptance.

Lets remember this, a shirt that you dont like or think is unflattering on someone, doesnt always just represent that shirt, but represents the fact that you havent taken the time to look deeper then that shirt, look deeper into the person whose there inside that shirt.

Thats all our clothes are…the “protection” the fabricated “shield” that keeps others from seeing us Naked. Seeing us uncovered by the things we hide behind. So if you look at a person As the Shield they use, you arent look at that person at all, you are looking at the socially and culturally warped view of what is acceptable.

 So thats all I hope for you, that you are given the opportunity to be discovered and adored for who you are at the depths of your being. And I hope for you to give others the opportunity to share their inner light with You.